Imagine you’re in front of an interviewer and there is a big pink elephant in the middle of the room that you’re just dancing around.

They think you’re too good for the job. At least, that’s what they keep telling you.

If you’re an experienced professional looking to scale back—maybe you want fewer hours, less stress, or a role that lets you actually sleep at night—you might be hitting a frustrating wall in your job search: the dreaded “overqualified” label.

And here’s the kicker: it’s not that you can’t do the job. It’s that your resume might be saying, “I’m aiming higher,” even when your soul is quietly whispering, “I’m done climbing.”

At Grammar Chic, we work with a lot of professionals who are ready for what we call a career downshift—not a failure to thrive, but a conscious choice to pursue more balance, fulfillment, or just a break from the C-suite hamster wheel.

Here are some ideas on how to write a resume that still reflects your brilliance—without screaming, “This is just a stepping stone until I burn out again.”

Stop Trying to “Hide” Your Experience (But Reframe It)

Don’t worry—you don’t need to delete your career history and pretend you’ve never managed a team, balanced a budget, or flown to seven cities in four days. You just need to reframe it for the role you want, not the one you’re walking away from.

Instead of listing every leadership responsibility you’ve ever held, shift the focus:

  • Highlight collaboration over command.
  • Emphasize hands-on tasks instead of strategic oversight.
  • Position your experience as added value—not a threat to someone else’s boss title.

Instead of:
“Led $5M budget and oversaw 45-person department.”

Try:
“Collaborated with cross-functional teams to ensure smooth operations and timely deliverables.”

Tweak the Title Trap

Your old job title may have been “Vice President of Everything,” but slapping that at the top of your resume can intimidate smaller companies or give the impression that you’re aiming too high.

Use your official title, but follow it with a subtitle or clarifier that softens the tone and explains your shift:

Example:
Senior Director of Operations (Pursuing Individual Contributor Roles Focused on Process Improvement)

This shows intent—and intention matters.

Make the Summary Work for You

Your resume summary is prime real estate. Use it to directly address the shift:

“Experienced operations leader with a track record of driving process improvements and mentoring teams. Currently seeking a role focused on execution and team collaboration, rather than leadership, in order to prioritize work-life balance and long-term impact.”

Honest. Direct. Not an apology.

De-Power the Power Words

Remember all those action verbs you’ve been taught to use? The ones that scream, “I’m the captain now”? Tone them down.

Use phrases like:

  • Supported
  • Partnered with
  • Contributed to
  • Facilitated
  • Coordinated

These words still show effectiveness, but with less emphasis on leading the charge.

Don’t Fear the Cover Letter

This is where you really get to address the elephant—gently.

Use your cover letter to explain that this is a conscious decision, not a result of failure or desperation.

“After many years in high-level leadership, I’m excited to return to a more focused, hands-on role where I can contribute directly to team outcomes and business success.”

You don’t owe anyone your life story—but a little context can go a long way.

Final Thoughts: You’re Not “Too Much.” You’re Just Ready for Less.

Choosing to scale back doesn’t mean your ambition is gone—it just means it’s pointing in a new direction. Toward peace. Toward purpose. Toward being able to clock out at 5 p.m. and not check email until tomorrow.

And if your resume doesn’t reflect that yet? Well, that’s where we come in.

At Grammar Chic, we help professionals tell the right story—for the right stage of their career. Whether you’re stepping down, stepping back, or stepping into something entirely new, we’ll craft a resume that shows you’re still a catch—just no longer chasing. Schedule a consultation today.